This Is The CORRECT Way To Talk With God According To The Bible

“Have you ever wondered how to pray effectively? What attitude should you have when approaching God? What words should you use? What benefits does prayer bring to your life? If you want to know the answers to these and other questions, stay with me in this video where I will share some practical and biblical tips to help you improve your prayer life.”

“The first thing you must do for God to hear you when you pray is to have patience. Having patience in prayer is one of the most difficult tests, but also one of the most powerful. Many times we want immediate answers, but God teaches us to wait because his timing is perfect. Jesus reminds us in Luke 11:9-10: ‘Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and it will be open to you.’ Here, Jesus encourages us to persevere in prayer. He did not say ask once and it will be given to you; instead, he teaches us to keep our asking, to seek with persistence, and to knock on the door with determination. Waiting is not a punishment; it is preparation. God not only answers prayers, but he also transforms us while we wait.”

“In John 15:7, Jesus says: ‘If you abide in me and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be done for you.’ This means that our prayers should not be based on impatience but on trust—trust that God knows what is best for us. Look at the case of Abraham and Sarah in Genesis 17. God promised them a child, but years passed without the promise being fulfilled. In the waiting, they doubted, made rushed decisions, and even tried to help God with their own plan. But in the end, God fulfilled his word at the perfect moment.”

“How many times have we tried to speed up God’s answer? How many times have we wanted to take control because we feel that the waiting is too long? But Abraham’s story reminds us of something fundamental: God never forgets what he has promised. His timing is not ours, but his promises are secure. When you pray and feel like the answer is not coming, do not despair. Instead of asking, ‘Why is God taking so long?,’ change your prayer and say, ‘Lord, I trust that you are working in my life. I know that you will answer at the perfect moment. Help me wait patiently knowing that your plan is always better than mine.’ Patience in prayer is a test of faith. It does not mean that God is not listening; it means that he is preparing the right answer at the exact time. Trust in him, because what God has for you is far greater than anything you could ever imagine.”

“The second thing you must do for God to hear you when you pray is to have faith. Many people pray, but deep down they doubt whether God is really listening to them. Have you ever felt that way, as if your prayers were just words in the air and nothing happened? The Bible tells us in Hebrews 11:1: ‘Faith is the assurance of what we hope for, the certainty of what we do not see.’ And later in Hebrews 11:6, it clearly states: ‘Without faith it is impossible to please God, because whoever comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.’ This means that faith is not optional when we pray; it is the main ingredient. Without faith, prayer becomes nothing more than words without direction.”

“Romans 4:20-21 says: ‘Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God, being fully persuaded that God had the power to do what he had promised.’ Maybe today you are waiting for an answer. You have prayed for healing, for provision, or for the restoration of your family, but you see no changes. Here’s the key: do not let doubt destroy your prayer. James 1:6-7 warns us about this: ‘But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord.’ God does not respond to prayers filled with doubt; he responds to prayers filled with faith.”

“When you pray, instead of saying, ‘Lord, if you can help me,’ say with confidence, ‘Lord, I trust that you are already working in my life. I believe in your promises and I know that you will answer in your perfect time.’ Think about Peter when he walked on water toward Jesus in Matthew 14. At first, he kept his eyes on Jesus and walked on the sea, but the moment he looked at the waves and felt the wind, he began to sink. Jesus said to him, ‘You of little faith, why did you doubt?’ The same thing happens to us. We start with faith, but when circumstances become difficult, we begin to doubt and we sink into fear and anxiety. When you pray, do not focus on the circumstances; focus on God and remember: when you pray with faith, God hears and responds.”

“The third thing you must do for God to hear you when you pray is to recognize who he is. Prayer is not just a list of requests; it is a conversation with God, the creator of the universe, and when you approach him, you must do so with humility and reverence. The Bible tells us in Psalm 95:6-7: ‘Come, let us bow down in worship, let us kneel before the Lord our maker; for he is our God and we are the people of his pasture, the flock under his care.’”

“Think about Moses in Exodus 3:5 when he approached the burning bush. God said to him, ‘Take off your sandals, for the place where you are standing is holy ground.’ Moses understood that he was in the presence of the living God, and he fell face down. He did not approach in a hurry or with demands, but with fear and reverence. The same should happen with us. Before asking for anything, we must recognize to whom we are speaking. He is not just anyone; he is the King of kings, the Lord of lords, the almighty God. When you pray, take a moment and say, ‘Lord, I recognize that you are holy. You are the owner of my life, the creator of everything. I come to you with respect and worship.’”

“Jesus taught us this in Matthew 6:9 when he said: ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.’ But here is the problem: many people start praying by asking for things immediately without even acknowledging God. That is a mistake. Jesus warned us in Matthew 6:5: ‘When you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full.’ God does not want empty prayers; he desires a genuine relationship. If you approach him with a proud heart or thinking that you can manipulate him with beautiful words, you are missing the true purpose of prayer.”

“A humble heart is what God listens to. The Bible tells us in Hebrews 12:28-29: ‘Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our God is a consuming fire.’ If you truly want God to hear you, start by worshiping him. Acknowledge his greatness; put him in the place he deserves in your life. Before asking for anything, say, ‘Lord, you are my King, my Savior, my Father. Today I come to you with humility, knowing that you are in control of everything.’ When you understand this, your prayer changes. It is no longer just a monologue where you ask for things, but a moment where you connect with God and experience his presence. So here is the question: what is your attitude when you pray? Do you approach God with humility or just with a list of requests? If you change your focus and start with worship, your prayer will be transformed and, most importantly, God will hear you.”

“The fourth thing you must do for God to hear you when you pray is to turn prayer into a habit. Why do some people seem to have such a strong connection with God while others feel like they pray and nothing happens? The difference is consistency. Prayer is not an empty ritual or a magic formula; it is a spiritual habit that transforms your life. Think about Daniel. He had the habit of praying three times a day, no matter the circumstances. Even when the king issued a decree that no one could pray to any God, Daniel did not abandon his time of prayer.”

“Daniel 6:10 tells us: ‘When Daniel knew that the decree had been signed, he went into his house and with his windows open toward Jerusalem, he knelt down three times a day and prayed and gave thanks before his God, just as he had done before.’ And what happened? God honored his faithfulness and protected him from the lions. God is not looking for perfect prayers; he is looking for faithful hearts. Start with short prayers. Do not worry about using many words; God is not interested in long speeches, but in the sincerity of your heart.”

“1 Samuel 16:7 reminds us: ‘Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.’ You can say simple phrases like: ‘Thank you, Lord, for this day. Forgive me, Lord, for my sins. Help me, Lord, in this situation. I praise you, Lord, for your greatness.’ When you do this, you keep your connection with God active throughout the day. Also, pray out loud. Many people feel uncomfortable praying out loud, but this helps you stay focused and avoid distractions. Even Jesus himself prayed out loud. In John 11:41-42, when he resurrected Lazarus, he said: ‘Father, I thank you that you have heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me.’”

“Speaking out loud makes you more aware that you are truly in a conversation with God. Next, find a specific time and place to pray. Jesus had the habit of withdrawing to solitary places to pray. Luke 5:16 says: ‘But he often withdrew to deserted places and prayed.’ Choose a specific time to talk with God; it could be in the morning, before you sleep, or at any time of the day. Remember, you can pray in your room, while driving, walking in the park, or before an important meeting. The important thing is not where you pray, but making prayer a daily habit. If you truly want God to hear you, make prayer a habit. You do not need perfect words, just a sincere and consistent heart.”

“The fifth thing you must do for God to hear you when you pray is to follow the model that Jesus taught us. Jesus himself left us the perfect model of prayer in Matthew 6:9-13, known as the Lord’s Prayer. This is not just a prayer to be repeated, but a pattern that teaches us how to speak to God powerfully. ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.’ Think about Isaiah when he had a vision of God on his throne; the first thing he did was recognize God’s holiness. In Isaiah 6:5, the prophet said: ‘Woe to me, I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the Lord Almighty.’”

“When you pray, start by acknowledging who God is. He is not just a distant figure; he is your loving Father, but also the King of the universe. ‘Your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.’ Jesus prayed this way in Gethsemane when he knew he was about to face the cross. He taught us to completely surrender to God’s will. In Matthew 26:39, he said: ‘My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.’ When you pray, do not just ask for what you want; surrender your plans to God and say with faith: ‘Lord, let your will be done, not mine. I trust that your plan is better than mine.’ ‘Give us this day our daily bread.’ God provided manna to the Israelites in the desert, but he only gave them their daily portion so they would learn to trust him each day. Exodus 16:4 says: ‘I will rain down bread from heaven for you. The people are to go out each day and gather enough for that day.’ When you pray, do not worry about the future; trust that God will provide what you need today.”

“‘Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors.’ Jesus told the parable of the unmerciful servant in Matthew 18:23-35, where a man was forgiven a great debt but he refused to forgive someone who owed him much less. In Matthew 18:32-33, the king said to him: ‘You wicked servant, I forgave you all that debt because you begged me. Shouldn’t you also have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had mercy on you?’ If we do not forgive, God will not forgive us; it is a spiritual principle. ‘Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.’ Think about Joseph when Potiphar’s wife tempted him; he did not stay to argue, he ran away. Genesis 39:12 says: ‘She grabbed him by his cloak and said, ‘Come to bed with me!’’ But he left his cloak in her hand and ran out of the house. When you pray, ask God to help you recognize temptation and give you the strength to resist. ‘For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever.’ This is a reminder that God is in control. No matter what you face, he is still King. Revelation 19:6 says: ‘Hallelujah! For our Lord God Almighty reigns.’ When you finish praying, declare with faith that God has power over everything in your life. Jesus taught us that prayer is not just about asking, but an act of surrender, trust, and worship. God is waiting for you to talk to him. Start today; follow this model and you will see how your prayer life is transformed.”

“The sixth thing you must do for God to hear you when you pray is to praise and worship him. It is easy to fall into the habit of seeking God only when we need something, but prayer is much more than that. Jesus taught us that prayer is also an act of worship. It is not just about our needs, but about exalting God for who he is and for what he has done in our lives. Psalm 34:1-3 tells us: ‘I will bless the Lord at all times; his praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul shall make its boast in the Lord; the humble shall hear of it and be glad. Oh magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together.’”

“When you pray with praise and worship, your focus shifts. Instead of worrying about what is missing, you start thanking God for what he has already done. Paul and Silas were unjustly imprisoned; they were beaten and chained in a dark cell, but instead of complaining, what did they do? Acts 16:25-26 tells us: ‘At midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them. Suddenly there was such a violent earthquake that the foundations of the prison were shaken. At once all the prison doors flew open, and everyone’s chains came loose.’ Their worship provoked a miracle. When you praise God in the midst of your struggles, he moves on your behalf—not because you are manipulating him, but because your faith is strengthened and you acknowledge his power. Take a moment and say: ‘Lord, in the middle of my trials, I choose to praise you. I know that you are in control.’”

“David understood this very well; he used music to connect with God. Psalm 150:3-6 tells us: ‘Praise him with the sound of the trumpet, praise him with the harp and lyre, praise him with timbrel and dancing, praise him with strings and flute. Let everything that has breath praise the Lord.’ David danced, sang, and played instruments to praise God; he did not care what others thought, he only wanted to express his love for God. You do not need to be a musician to praise God; you can do it with your voice, with clapping, or simply with a grateful heart. If you feel sad or anxious, play a worship song and start praising God; you will notice how his presence fills your life. Worship is not just about singing; you can praise God with your words, even in a silent prayer. Hebrews 13:15 tells us: ‘Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise—the fruit of lips that openly profess his name.’ Gratitude transforms your heart and draws you closer to God. God is looking for true worshippers; it is not about following a routine or repeating beautiful words, it is about worshiping him with sincerity, with a willing heart. When you focus on God and exalt him, his peace fills your life. If you truly want God to hear you, do not just pray to ask—pray to worship.”

“The seventh thing you must do for God to hear you when you pray is to confess and repent. Have you ever felt like something is blocking your relationship with God? Like your prayers don’t seem to go beyond the ceiling? The Bible teaches us that sin separates us from God, but there is a way to restore our communion with him: confession and repentance. 1 John 1:9 tells us: ‘If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.’ This means that God is not waiting to punish you; he is waiting to restore you. He wants you to come to him with a sincere heart, acknowledging your faults and being willing to change.”

“King David is a great example of what it means to confess with a sincere heart. In Psalm 51:3-4, David says: ‘For I acknowledge my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight.’ David had committed adultery with Bathsheba and had plotted the death of her husband, Uriah, but instead of justifying his sin, he humbled himself before God and asked for forgiveness. God does not reject those who truly repent. Take a moment and say: ‘Lord, I acknowledge my sin. I do not want to hide it or justify it. Forgive me and cleanse me.’ Repentance is not just saying ‘I’m sorry’; it’s about change. In Luke 19:8-9, Zacchaeus, after encountering Jesus, declared: ‘Lord, I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anyone, I will pay them back four times as much.’ Zacchaeus didn’t just confess his sin; he changed his actions. If you truly repent, you must show it through your actions.”

“Many times, keeping sin a secret fills us with guilt and anxiety. James 5:16 tells us: ‘Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.’ Confession not only frees us spiritually but also emotionally. If you have offended someone, ask for forgiveness. If you carry a burden, talk to a spiritual leader or a trusted friend who can pray for you. Say out loud: ‘Lord, I want to walk in freedom. I don’t want to hide my sin. Today I choose to confess and receive your forgiveness.’ Peter denied Jesus three times on the worst night of his life; he could have been trapped in guilt, but instead he repented and allowed God to restore him. John 21:17 tells us that Jesus asked Peter three times: ‘Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me?’ Even though Peter was saddened, he responded: ‘Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.’ Jesus not only forgave him but also restored him to be a leader in the church. God does not want you to live in condemnation; he wants to restore you and use you for his glory. God does not reject you; he is waiting for you with open arms. Today is the best day to be free.”

“If today you feel that your burdens are too heavy, that doors are not opening, or that anxiety and fear are trying to take control, I want you to say this prayer with me. The word of God teaches us that when we pray with faith, he listens and acts. If you repeat this prayer with a sincere heart, the Lord will give you peace, wisdom, and will remove the barriers that are preventing you from moving forward. Pray with me and allow his presence to fill your life.”

“‘Lord, today I come before you with a humble heart, knowing that you are my refuge and my strength. Sometimes I do not understand what is happening in my life, but today I choose to trust in you. Give me patience to wait for your perfect timing, faith to believe in your promises, and strength to keep moving forward even when I cannot see the way clearly. You are the God who opens doors where there are none, the God who heals, restores, and transforms hearts. Today I lay my burdens at your feet—every fear, every doubt, every worry—I surrender it all to you. Fill me with your peace, the peace that surpasses all understanding. Forgive me for my mistakes, for my doubts, for the moments when I have tried to take control into my own hands. Today I surrender my life to you and declare that your will is better than mine. Help me to pray with faith, perseverance, and a sincere heart. Renew my spirit, fill me with your love, and guide me in every step I take. I declare that today I walk in your grace, that my prayers have power, and that in you I find rest. Thank you, Lord, because I know that you are working in my life. In the name of Jesus, amen.’”